You know the type… One minute, you think she likes you, the next time, she’ll be avoiding you. You’ll notice her words and actions contradict each other.
Even if she’s agreed to be in a relationship with you, an emotionally unavailable woman will not make it easy for you to jump over the walls she has built around her heart.
This is because emotional unavailability often stems from a fear of intimacy and vulnerability. But despite her use of numerous defense mechanisms, you’ll notice a hint of care and affection in her actions.
Despite their emotional barriers, they still crave attention and affection. They may also become easily irritated when all of a sudden you get busy and cannot spend as much time with them as you did in the past.
She could constantly try to make you feel bad about yourself. She’ll not own up to her mistakes. Instead, she’ll figure out a way to blame you for it. If you argue with her, she will accuse you of oppressing her.
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This is another unpleasant trait of someone who’s emotionally unavailable – when they can’t express their affection or love on a more positive note, they tend to act out by showing jealousy or possessiveness.
But that’s the deal with women like this – you don’t know what kind of mood you’re getting. Because unlike other women who can easily express their love, you would have to figure out what her actions really mean before you can be sure that she’s in love with you.
Aside from having a hard time opening up, they often struggle with conflict and confrontation. So if she has feelings for you, she may try to avoid uncomfortable or difficult conversations.
And connected to her issues with vulnerability and avoiding conflict, she will try to meet you halfway. Yes, an attempt at diplomacy. When things are heated between the two of you,