Have you found that you love certain parts of your personality and behavior and recognize that these same traits occasionally invite challenges? Do you feel like your thoughts and actions sometimes need a little balancing?
This can be done in all sorts of different ways, like with a natal astrology reading or simply by exploring your own personal skills and challenges.
Regardless of how you do it, the goal is to identify potential strengths and weaknesses in your personality that occasionally need to be balanced. For instance, Pisces are often described as dreamy and intuitive.
When determining where your shadow and light dwell, look at what comes naturally to you.
Imagine you are a warrior that everyone can count on. You love challenges and you love to execute a winning plan. The key is determining if you believe your identity, self-worth, and self-love are only found on one side of your personality.
The belief that one part of our personality is worthy of love and respect over the balancing trait is untrue. They all serve us well in different scenarios.
It's just as important to be able to let go of the reins, trust and relax as it is to be confident and take charge.
Strong leaders sometimes need to step back and recognize that they can’t control everything.
Writing this helped me recognize the importance of pausing and paying attention to what I’m feeling, not just what I am receiving.