Covert narcissists may have a strong desire for validation and admiration from others, seeking constant reassurance of their self-worth.
They may struggle to empathize with others' emotions or experiences, often displaying a self-centered perspective in conversations and interactions.
Despite their quiet and reserved demeanor, covert narcissists may have an inflated sense of self-importance and superiority, believing they are more special or deserving than others.
They may engage in manipulative tactics to control and influence others, such as guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or playing the victim to gain sympathy.
Covert narcissists often have fragile self-esteem and may be highly sensitive to criticism or rejection. They may respond defensively or withdraw when their self-image is challenged.
They may struggle with respecting personal boundaries, invading your privacy or disregarding your needs and emotions.
Covert narcissists may struggle with emotional intimacy and connection, keeping their true selves guarded and presenting a façade to maintain control.
They may engage in subtle and indirect forms of aggression, such as making sarcastic comments, giving backhanded compliments, or withholding affection as a means of control.
Covert narcissists may often portray themselves as victims, deflecting responsibility for their actions and placing blame on others.
They may use intermittent positive reinforcement to keep you hooked, alternating between moments of affection and validation with periods of withdrawal or coldness.