Here’s a love story you’ve probably never heard before: Boy meets girl, falls in love, grows up and gets married to said girl, has three beautiful kids… And then his wife starts pushing him to sleep with other women because it excites her.
She wants me to rate her choices for my future bed buddies, but all I can say is that the idea of playing this game with my wife has left me feeling confused, turned on and baffled in so many ways.
It had been good, and my wife Wendy reached her climax right around the same time as me. It almost felt like the first days when we started dating. We held each other and I stroked her hair gently. She said that she was fully satisfied. I said I was too, whispering in her ear.
Let me be honest: my first reaction is that I got very turned on. I was practically ready for round two with Wendy just from the thought of getting some jaw-dropping strange with her hot coworker.
At the same time, part of me could see this in a way where I didn’t take it as a bad thing and thought of it as an expansion of our intimate life. Of course, I asked her why and she said it was a fantasy she had and that she thought it would make me happy and take the edge of stress.
I was relatively young when I married my wife, and to be quite honest our marriage has been quite good. I could be dramatic and talk about illness or issues we’ve had, but overall compared to some friends of mine we have been truly blessed.
The thing is that the more I considered it the more I really was torn. As this reader advises on a forum, the decision to play around with your wife’s permission isn’t as simple as it looks on the surface.
Will I go all the way with Allie in the future? Let’s just say I’m thinking about it. But I also believe that marriage is a two-way street and I don’t want to feel any pressure about doing more than I’m comfortable with right now or having a bad reaction to a sexual adventure that seems fun at first.
A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track.