One of the important signs of being too comfortable in a relationship is no longer having real dates with your loved one. Find some time where you can be with each other exclusively and with attention.
When you look at your chat, all you can find there are agreements and arrangements. If you didn’t know better it would seem as though two roommates were messaging.
Not only is there no more date night, but you find it too effortful to try and catch each other for mealtime. You’d rather grab a bite alone while watching something interesting as it just seems easier and simple.
You can take your clothes off and talk, eat, or even argue. When either is naked or changing you notice that the stirring of passions and arousal is absent.
We are not saying to engage in PDA every time you say goodbye, but a passionate connection lies in action, not words. Instead of a peck on the cheek try going for a long, embracing kiss next time.
Not much comes close to the importance of those three words, especially at the beginning of the relationship.
When you become too comfortable, you will notice that you are less and less discussing personal matters and more daily duties and logistical details.
It is too laborious to try and think of gifts for each other so you simply give each other a list of things you would like. It could be that you even purchase it and they simply give you the cash.
“If we are done in 10 minutes we can also get some rest.” Does it ever go through your mind that you don’t want sex to last too long so you cut down on the foreplay part?