Imagine a woman in her period – but all the time! That’s what dating an emotionally unavailable woman can look like. You must be ready for mood swings 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
Even if she’s agreed to be in a relationship with you, an emotionally unavailable woman will not make it easy for you to jump over the walls she has built around her heart.
You may have met Jenny from the office, but have you had drinks with her college roomies? Have you been to any parties with her high school besties?
Especially when you’ve been talking about her non-stop to your friends, and they’re all dying to meet her. They might even question if she exists because you claim to have been with her for so long, yet they haven’t seen her.
You may find that she often pretends not to hear you. She also has a habit of interrupting you or turning her back away from you while you’re still talking.
– She will always make an excuse, and it will never be her fault: “It’s not my fault that the traffic was so bad I missed our dinner date.” – She will boomerang the blame on you: “You’re too clingy, so I had to go away and give myself space.”
– She won’t block off her calendar for regular date nights. – She never messages you first. – She will take forever to reply to your messages.
Although you’ve been planning all your date nights, you’ve probably made these around her preferences.
Remember that not all relationships are the same and while emotional unavailability is a deal breaker for some, it may not be for others.
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