The truth is that men who love themselves more than anyone else are not willing to make sacrifices for anyone but themselves.
The alternative is to be sunk in stagnant codependency and completely unable to resolve things like the fact that your man loves you more than himself.
Confronting her doesn’t mean you need to be rude, simply point it out and say “Hey, I’ve noticed this, am I just being crazy, or is there a reason for it?”
You may come across as too eager and desperate. So, try to be confident and assertive when you talk to her. A great way to do that is to mirror back her body language.
Basically, you want to let her know that you get it. That you’re not pressuring her or trying to rush her into anything.
Sometimes, people just need to get their thoughts out in the open. So, if you ask her what’s on her mind, she might just tell you. In the same way, you can also communicate your own feelings clearly and openly.
If she tells you that she needs more time and space, you could say something like “I completely understand that you need more time and distance. That’s a good thing because it means that this isn’t moving too quickly for you.”
A simple way to show her that you are enjoying being around her is to ask her if she wants to hang out with you more often.
You’ll feel better and will be better equipped to handle any situation that may arise. Make sure that you’re in a good place before attempting to engage with her.
She may just be taking longer to warm up to you or feel comfortable with you. You may need to spend more time together before she opens up to you more.