Instead, make it a point to actively listen when your partner opens up. Even if their chatter isn’t initially appealing to you, show an interest by asking questions or giving thoughtful responses.
Don’t underestimate the power of words. A simple ‘thank you’ isn’t just a phrase, it’s a show of appreciation towards your partner and lets them know that their efforts are fully acknowledged. Don’t get complacent, make sure your partner feels appreciated.
Making the effort of buying ingredients and cooking a meal will not go unnoticed. There’s nothing like food to say ‘I love you’ and show thoughtfulness.
The next best option is to take your person to a pleasant meal out—this can be in the form of a posh restaurant booking or a quaint picnic at the park.
Realize that salvaging your relationship is greater than prolonging a petty fight. Let your pride down and let them take this one. It may not be easy in the heat of battle, but sometimes it’s necessary.
Performing acts of service communicates how you care and want to help things get done. It communicates that you are a unit, a team, journeying through life whilst having each other’s backs.
A person’s interests are a bit of a reflection of who they are as a person. We all subconsciously know this. So ask questions, be curious (even if you have to fake it), and please don’t appear inconvenienced.
Your partner may have lost their job, or a deal fell through or perhaps they even lost a loved one–at their lowest moments, show kindness by simply being there, and letting them know that they aren’t alone. Empathy and support are valuable assets in any human connection.
My girlfriend, for instance, is a bit of an introvert. One of her primary outlets is her anonymous Twitter account, where she communicates with like-minded people throughout the world.
Science has proved it: a hug releases stress, boosts memory, and lowers blood pressure. Make a concerted effort to hug your partner often, whether in the kitchen while cooking or saying goodbye in the morning. This is particularly relevant if your partner’s love language is physical touch.